Parental Perspective
on Student Migration Decisions in the Sylhet Region
Md. Rahman (pseudonym), aged 48, is a resident of Sreemangal in
the Moulvibazar district and currently resides in Moulvibazar town with his
family. As a small business owner and the primary income earner of his
household, he plays a central role in family decision-making. His son has
recently completed higher secondary education and aspires to pursue higher
studies abroad. In this context, Md. Rahman has taken an active role in
deciding to send his son to the United Kingdom.
From his perspective, the employment landscape in Bangladesh is
highly competitive, uncertain, and often time-intensive. In contrast, he
perceives overseas education as a pathway to improved career prospects, global
exposure, and long-term financial stability. This perception is strongly shaped
by the socio-cultural context of the Sylhet region, where migration is widely
associated with success and upward mobility. The visible achievements of
relatives living abroad further reinforce his confidence in this pathway. He
also observes that families with members abroad tend to receive greater social
recognition, which motivates him to pursue similar opportunities for his son.
Moreover, with many of his son’s peers planning to study in the UK, he believes
that the presence of a well-established Sylheti community will facilitate
easier adaptation and access to part-time employment through social networks.
Despite this optimism, Md. Rahman is acutely aware of the
challenges involved. His son has never lived independently, and adjusting to a
new environment while managing academic responsibilities, part-time work, and
daily life may prove demanding. Financially, the decision has placed
considerable pressure on him. In order to cover the first year’s tuition fees,
he has decided to liquidate some of his assets. Additionally, he perceives that
visa procedures have become increasingly stringent, adding another layer of
uncertainty.
His concerns are further amplified by reports of fraudulent
agencies and consultancies, which he has encountered through newspapers and
social media platforms such as Facebook. The prevalence of misleading
advertisements offering low-cost migration opportunities has made it difficult
for him to distinguish between legitimate and unreliable service providers.
Prior to intervention, both he and his son faced confusion when comparing
different agencies and associated costs.
A significant shift in his understanding occurred after
participating in a consultation workshop and a Safe Education Migration Fair
organized under the project “Community-Based Awareness and Engagement for Safe,
Legal and Informed Youth Migration.” Through this engagement, he gained access
to accurate, verified, and practical information. Notably, learning about
agency verification processes was a new and transformative experience, enabling
him to approach decision-making with greater confidence and caution.
He also came to realize that relying solely on part-time
employment to finance tuition and living expenses abroad is not feasible—an
assumption he previously held. Awareness of work-hour limitations and income
constraints for international students led him to reassess his financial
strategy. Consequently, while he remains committed to sending his son to the
UK, he now prioritizes comprehensive financial planning, realistic cost
assessment, and exploration of alternative support mechanisms such as
scholarships and family assistance. About this context he said, “As a parent, I once believed that sending my
son abroad would automatically secure his future. But now I realize that
without proper information, financial planning, and verified guidance, this
journey can be as risky as it is promising.”
Overall, Md. Rahman’s case illustrates the complex interplay of
social influence, economic aspirations, and perceived risks in shaping parental
decisions regarding student migration in the Sylhet region. It also highlights
the critical role of awareness-based interventions in transforming perceptions
and enabling safer, more informed, and legally compliant migration pathways.